"Usually people are the most honest when they're not thinking about what they're about to say... " ~JB played by DC on Eastwick~ -The first time I heard the above quote, I thought it was a well spoken line in a show I had never seen... then I really thought about it, & its true. When you are in the heat of a moment, the things that come out are the things you wish you could say. They are usually unguarded & not very eloquent, but we don't think in iambic pentameter, we think in the simplest of prose (well, most of us anyway). It made me stop & think about the things I keep myself from saying & the situations that I avoid so I don't make a mistake & insult someone... but it also stifles my personality. The things we like & believe in make us who we are & if we are keeping ourselves from sharing those thoughts with others to avoid upsetting them, we are not being true to ourselves.- I have been blessed with a full time job, which allows me to pay my bills, and hopefully get back to school soon... I am proud to be the Aunt and Godmother to my niece Alexis, who is growing up beautifully... I don't know exactly what I want to do for the rest of my life, but for now, I'm choosing not to stress myself out over it. I want to live my life and meet new people. I want to travel and see the world. I want to experience worlds outside of ours through books, movies, and music... what can I say, I want it all.